Playing the guitar can be one of the most lovely skills you can learn. When you know how to play the guitar, you can play any music you like, you can play when you are stressed, you can play when you are happy, and if you like, you can also play for others.
Many people wished that they can play the guitar.
Some learn when they are young, some want to learn when they are older. After helping many students find guitar teachers in Singapore, I realized that guitar is an instrument that is loved by all ages!
Kids as young as 5 years old, to adults in their 50s and 60s, they all love the guitar. What’s amazing about the guitar, is that is also an accompaniment instrument you can play with, while you sing!
I understand that many adults would love to learn the guitar, but one big question they have is this:
“Can I still learn the guitar, at my age?”
I truly understand where they are coming from.
In Singapore, especially in this ‘kiasu’ (scared-to-lose) culture, parents send their kids to multiple enrichment classes as young as 3 years old. Yes, I do get parents requesting me to teach their 2 years old child too. When you see so many kids attending guitar lessons, the common assumption would be that ‘music lessons are for kids’.
Not only that. Often, you will see awesome videos of young children winning music competitions, or playing incredibly difficult pieces at a very young age of 4 to 5 years old. This is one really talented child:
We have to give credit to these children. They are really good in their playing, and they will become world-class guitarist in no time.
When we see all these around us, we will always think “Wow, what did I do when I’m at that age?” , “Why didn’t I learn something when I was young?”, and it will slowly lead to “It’s too late to learn guitar now as I’m not young anymore”.
All these thoughts are just holding you back. No one says the guitar, or any music is only for kids. No one says adults can’t learn guitar!
In fact, I’m going to tell you why you will learn guitar faster and better than a child, even if you have ZERO music background.
1. As an adult, you have longer attention span
You’ve been though school, and you’re probably okay with sitting and paying attention for 20 to 30 minutes. Take a break, and continue for another 15 minutes or so.
But kids can’t sit for long as their attention span is short. As the teacher, you need to keep engaging them, take little breaks here and there. Or worse, you have to discipline them for walking around and not focused on lessons.
2. As an adult, you know what discipline is
You know that if you want to achieve a goal, you need to put in hard work, and practice consistently. In my experience of teaching adults, I can say that 90% of adult learners are self-motivated to learn and practice. At most, you just need a little reminder, that’s all.
On the other hand, kids may not know what discipline is. Sometimes, parents have to enforce a strict practice regime to get them to be discipline. Hence, as adults, you’re likely to learn faster than kids as you have less of these discipline issues.
3. As an adult, you know more tunes and songs
You would have love some classical or pop songs, and that’s why you’re interested in learning guitar. And because you know the tunes inside you, you can pick up sounds easier. You learn to recognise notes faster too. And needless to say, if you’re learning to play songs you love, you will naturally love to practice and play it perfectly.
However, also because as an adult, you may have some disadvantages as well.
But don’t worry, they are not that bad.
1. You have other commitments
You may have completed school, but you may have to work, or juggle family and personal time. That’s where it can be challenging sometimes to have guitar lessons.
Sometimes, because of your work, you may need to skip a few lessons. Hence, if you want to learn the guitar, do set a fixed time and day of the week for lesson, and commit to it.
2. Your fingers may be a little stiffer
Many adult learners will say that their fingers are not as flexible as the kids, hence, they may not move as fast, or play as good as kids. It’s true that if you never play guitar before, your fingers will seems rigid and stubborn.
However, your fingers will become more flexible once you played the guitar over time. The constant movement and finger exercises in your guitar lessons will get your joints loosen up and be more flexible. So don’t worry about this.
3. You may have pre-conceived ideas about learning music
You want to learn the guitar, but you think that you may not be able to play it, because you think you’re tone-deaf. You attended a few guitar lessons, and you realise you took some time to understand some musical notes and playing. You feel like giving up as you think you’re a slow learner, and not talented for music.
That’s the real issue that will hold back many adult learners. Kids don’t think that way, because they don’t know if they are not talented, or if they are slow learner. They just go for lessons, practice, and they improve. (By the way, playing music is not about talent. But that’s article for another day!)
So if you really want to learn the guitar, throw out all these pre-conceived ideas about yourself that holds you back from learning the guitar well.
So if you’re an adult, can you still learn the guitar? The answer is absolutely yes. And it’s not because we want you to sign up for our adult guitar lessons right away.
It’s because it is entirely possible for anyone to learn guitar at any age, and we’ve seen many adults of all ages fulfil their childhood dream of playing the guitar.